You shouldn't try to build a relationship with someone if you have even an inkling of a feeling for smeone else, or if you're just nto sure, right? So, am I doing the right thing
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I'm not the perfect person to give advice but I think you should figure out if this other guy is orchestrating something. See what happens when you ask him things. You can't have a relationship if you don't really know the other person. Idk I think being straight forward and asking questions would be good. but i could be totally wrong...
I dont think i have it in me to be everything that he needs. Maybe that's what scares me...I'm afraid that I won't be enough. I'm scared that I'm not really all of the hings he thinks i am, and what if i disappoint him, and don't live up to my own expectations. I'm not good at relaionships. I'm not needy, and I dont wnt to be. But he could make me needy. GET OUT OF MY HEAD!
control freak thing = exactly me too.
first off. pick the one that'll be good for you, the one thats going to treat you right. because no matter how much you like broke-my-heart boy if he isn't sensitive about your feelings you're wasting your time with him & you're hurting yourself in the long run. self-sabotage. not a good thing.
ps. no one knows what they want until they have it. i thought i knew what i wanted...i definately didnt get it, but by all means it wasn't a bad thing. i found something else...that i'm glad i have.
I'm not good at sharing my feelings with anyone. It's just nto who i am.
oh my frickin God. thats me too!! and its so bad bc a relationship is all about being open and & trusting and my bf says bc i dont tell him a lot that i dont trust him or something but its not true at all....i just dont tell people things, it isn't me. i need to fix it.
i think you should put your fears aside and go with your gut.
because in your gut, you know who you want to be with and who you don't and you don't need us to tell you that. take a chance, you'll regret it if you don't later. then you'd forever be playing the 'what if' game. and no one likes that game. i'm a frequent player, and i hate it. so don't play, and go for it.
I know these boys. I know the situation. I know your final decision before I read this because I have been gone. I think you made the right one. I'll talk to you laster about it...in fact. Right now, I'm calling you.
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GET OUT OF MY HEAD!
control freak thing = exactly me too.
first off. pick the one that'll be good for you, the one thats going to treat you right. because no matter how much you like broke-my-heart boy if he isn't sensitive about your feelings you're wasting your time with him & you're hurting yourself in the long run. self-sabotage. not a good thing.
ps. no one knows what they want until they have it. i thought i knew what i wanted...i definately didnt get it, but by all means it wasn't a bad thing. i found something else...that i'm glad i have.
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oh my frickin God.
thats me too!!
and its so bad bc a relationship is all about being open and & trusting and my bf says bc i dont tell him a lot that i dont trust him or something but its not true at all....i just dont tell people things, it isn't me.
i need to fix it.
we should talk.
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because in your gut, you know who you want to be with and who you don't and you don't need us to tell you that. take a chance, you'll regret it if you don't later. then you'd forever be playing the 'what if' game. and no one likes that game. i'm a frequent player, and i hate it. so don't play, and go for it.
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