Heck in a hand basket..

Aug 25, 2003 01:07

1:00am 08/23 I come home, and I kept getting asked if I want Dorms, or want to be basicly sent off to Coprus and live in the dorms there..i get upset..I don't want to be put in dorms..I am getting married ( Read more... )

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arianadream August 25 2003, 03:04:58 UTC
Bonnie, you need a hug. I wish I could be there to give you one. :/ I'll be praying for you, that everything works out for you. Things shouldn't be this way, and you deserve better treatment than that. *Hugs*

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hollie0114 August 25 2003, 08:14:05 UTC
I agree with Amy, hun. You DO deserve better. You're always in my thoughts and prayers. I know you and Matt will be happy together... I just want you to be happy. Luv ya, chica. *mucho huggles*

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elfie_chan August 26 2003, 16:03:33 UTC
Ditto, and ditto. Is there somewhere you can go that's not with your parents/grandmother? It sounds like you need a safe place right now, and I strongly urge you to find that safe place. It might be a good idea to ask your pastor to provide mediation between you and your relatives--a neutral party who can listen to both sides and perhaps help your parents see your side of things.

Get out, and get out NOW. You deserve better than this, and you need some help so you don't have to go through this alone. Get Matt to help you. Getting married is supposed to be HAPPY, darnit! *growls at relatives* I'll be praying for you; I wish I could do more.

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well... saintcarvin September 1 2003, 22:45:37 UTC
I pray you have the best, and all works well. There are a few things I think I should say... but they are just my words, and if you disagree, don't take my advice.

Try not to fight to much with your parents, even if they are wrong. They will be with you the rest of your life, and there is a reason for you God gave the command to honor them. They may sound like yelling idiots, but I hope they deep down have your best interest in mind. I mean, I was floored when I heard from Nora that you were getting married, it's not been that long.

But more importantly, be glad and thank God he is so close... I am 400 miles away from whom I love... and it is crushing my heart. Even if I did ask her to marry me, it would be 4 years or more before I could. And untill then, I may only see her twice a year... So please, remember that it could be so much worse.

Know that I truely hope you the best, and that you will love long, happy lives together.

Agape
Bradley

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