Sorry to have darkened the mood. But like you said, you hate not knowing...Ok, that doesn't help, but at least you know! Or perhaps for you, ignorance is bliss? Think of it this way, I always urged you to tell him how you felt. You weren't always so keen on that, so if you had told him, and he liked someone else, wouldn't it feel so much worse to have him tell you? Maybe, maybe not? I don't know how your mind works. But, I know it isn't the easiest thing to just move on, but you can. Jen, you CAN move on. I mean, why wouldn't you be able to? It just takes time. Give it some time.
If that doesn't seem like an option, just tell him anyway?
It's going to be ok love. You don't need to stop loving him, you can't make yourself do something that you aren't ready for. Yes it might be hard dealing with it but over time it will fade ( I went through the same thing over the summer so I know how you feel ) and who knows what could happen between you guys. No one can predict the future so just let things flow. Remember I'm here for you always! And you're not being dumb.
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Think of it this way, I always urged you to tell him how you felt. You weren't always so keen on that, so if you had told him, and he liked someone else, wouldn't it feel so much worse to have him tell you? Maybe, maybe not? I don't know how your mind works. But, I know it isn't the easiest thing to just move on, but you can. Jen, you CAN move on. I mean, why wouldn't you be able to? It just takes time. Give it some time.
If that doesn't seem like an option, just tell him anyway?
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I know I'll have to tell him sooner or later, I just kinda want to keep things the way they are right now.... But, I guess ignorance is bliss.
Eeeh.
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