Comments | borges2678: Love and cheating!

borges2678

Love and cheating!

Dec 19, 2006 19:37

A year and a half in and Michelle drives me absolutely crazy! She never cleans or picks up after herself, has a nasty temper, gets angry easily, suffocates me and gets offended when I want ME time (which is far more frequent than it ever was,.. I never realized how much of a loner I was), she gets moody, etc. Yet we have a perfect relationship. ( Read more... )

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sarah_hazelnut December 20 2006, 14:59:38 UTC

Monogamy, in our society, is gesture of love and respect. The choice to be unfaithful is made before the choice to forgive. Why not just be faithful? Really, it's the least you can do!

As for Michelle being messy, learn to love it! That's her.

borges2678 December 21 2006, 01:18:35 UTC

I love Michelle, but I'm never going to learn to love coming in and seeing insects buzzing around the sink and a smell coming out of the garbage disposal that could knock a buzzard off a shit-truck!

But that was all speculation on why people cheat. I'm not asking for a license to cheat, as i never intend to, just expressing how I can see what might go through the minds of some who do cheat.

sarah_hazelnut December 21 2006, 01:30:29 UTC

Oh, I'm sorry! I didn't mean you you. I meant, it's the least one can do. =b

kurdy December 20 2006, 18:06:58 UTC

Ready for a long reply? (This has been building for a while, since I'm no longer writing in my own lj anymore. However, I thought I'd talk about it since it is very relevant to your topic ( ... )

borges2678 December 21 2006, 01:22:28 UTC

I'm sorry to hear about that situation with your brother. Michelle's brother is currently married to his third wife, and he's cheated on all of his previous wives, so I really don't think he's planning to change his behavior any time soon.

I really don't plan to cheat, ever..its all speculation on why some people do cheat and if its really as serious of a crime as we make it out to be. I know Michelle wouldn't cheat on me, and she trusts me a lot. Trust is key in a relationship, and ours started our riddled with lack of trust. Now, almost two years later, I realize all that has changed and we have complete trust in one another. I think that's good, and that's why we can stay together as much as we annoy the hell out of each other sometimes.