The roots of the poll...

[borrowedhaloxox]

Interesting change of events. Strange how in a friends journal the discussion of "mens" magazines was a subject. I had commented on an entry that I was lucky in the fact that my man wasn't into buying that stuff. We have a great sex life and I try to be as open as anyone in trying whatever the mood brings about

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[anonymous]

The night before our wedding, my husbands groomsmen took him out

[anonymous]

Okay, I am going to play devil's advocate... well not really, but this is my experience.

I am one of those women who enjoys taking her man to a strip club and allowing him to look and get a dance, hell, I pick out the women for him. But all it does is make him APPRECIATE ME more.

he says why bother with them when I get to take you home? I may look at the menu but not order.

and you know what, that makes me feel even better. I think for a guy in a committed relationship that is SECURE in it, its a good thing to go out with the guys to a strip club, maybe see a new move they'd love for us to try and then really appreciate what we do, how we do it and who we are.

But this also stems from the fact that you MUST have a great relationship to begin with, which it sounds like you do.