Okay this maybe sound bitchy but why do you expect Raul to cut his hair? Just because your parents are so intolerant? From what you said I'm pretty sure they'll find other things that are not right with him as much as I hate to say this.
I think it's unfair to expect him to try to meet your parents wishes especially since you fall in love with how and who he is now. I think your family is the one who needs to change..especially your stubborn sister
It's not that I expect him to to live up to my parents' standards it just that he doesn't take care of it. At all. It's not maintained and I explained that the lack of maintenance is what makes him look like a slob.
He doesn't have the motivation to really maintain it especially with our work and level of sports. Trust me I've tried to get him to work on the maintenance.
Congratulations on graduating and best of luck with the internship.
As for Raul and your family, I would noty let it get to you. He's dating YOU not your family so it's their loss if they aren't prepared to make an effort.
As for his hair, I don't think having him cut it is going to make a difference to your family. It seems they have already made up their minds, sadly. They should be glad that you have found someone that makes you happy. I hope in time that they cop on and see it that way.
Finally your Mums' living in sin comment? It made me laugh, I know it shouldn't but it just seems such an outdated notion now in todays' society. Anyway chin up, things can only get better.
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your parents have a problem with Raul's hair? that's weird. i hope everything works out okay when you and your family have that meeting.
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I think it's unfair to expect him to try to meet your parents wishes especially since you fall in love with how and who he is now. I think your family is the one who needs to change..especially your stubborn sister
But congrats on graduating and this internship!
*hugs*
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a lot needs to change in my family.
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*hugs*
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As for Raul and your family, I would noty let it get to you. He's dating YOU not your family so it's their loss if they aren't prepared to make an effort.
As for his hair, I don't think having him cut it is going to make a difference to your family. It seems they have already made up their minds, sadly. They should be glad that you have found someone that makes you happy. I hope in time that they cop on and see it that way.
Finally your Mums' living in sin comment? It made me laugh, I know it shouldn't but it just seems such an outdated notion now in todays' society. Anyway chin up, things can only get better.
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I'm trying not to, but they're making it so difficult for either of us to be comfortable and my sister is making is even more difficult.
I know it will make a difference with my dad because he sees it as Raul growing up and committing to me. That's how conservative my parents are.
Yeah, my mom's old school.
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