The saga continues...

[boyboyjuju]

Just as I thought that I wouldn’t be blogging anytime soon, Big just gave me something to blog about. Here’s how the story went:

Big had just came back from his week-long trip from San Francisco yesterday and I had purposely taken an entire day off to spend some quality time with him. And so we had hot sex; we went out for lunch and movie; and we

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[chrishansenhome]

Sorry about that...hope it works out. If he wants you to do things you don't want to do, then probably it's time to move on. There are lots of guys who will want you and you alone! Go get 'em!

[boyboyjuju]

well, i dun want to do the things he want to, but i want him. so how?

[chrishansenhome]

Well, the worst thing to do would be to do the things you don't want to do just to keep him. A friend of ours here in London is in that pickle. He wants A, but A has a long standing relationship with B (married with children and grandchildren). B wants A to continue to be bf with our friend, because B wants to f*ck our friend in the worst way. Our friend doesn't know what to do, but he submits because he doesn't have too many options. So he's letting B f*ck him.

I think that you should make your feelings clear to your bf and let him make the choice as to whether he wants to continue with you or not. This may be hard for you, and I am e-hugging you right now about this, but getting what is best for you is important. I hope he chooses you.

[urbayne]

pragmatically speaking, if everyone gets rubbed the right way and no one minds, three ways should work.

but we're talking relationships then common sense just goes out the window.

personally i think being in a r/s is much much more than being in love.

its a series of choices and i just dont know if in your case the choices made here are to the betterment of your r/s with big.

three might be a crowd but seriously where would(could?) it end?

four? five? a carousel of men flitting in and out, you being the only constant?

[shaoann]

as long as you are First Wife ... that's all that matters!

[boyboyjuju]

why must i be the first wife? why can't i be the one with two wives?

[frostbit_ch]

sorry i must have missed a really big chunk of ur LJ entries... suddenly, u r back with Mr Big?

did the SATC movie had anything to do with it? = p

poor boyboyjuju.... seems like u r back to square zero...

ganbatte ne!!

if u want mr big, n u think can put up with all the nonsense, then i say go for it!! go where ur heart says. but if u cant take it, or its nt wat u want, then u shld let go. give him a chance to be happy with someone else, or give u a chance to find happiness with another person more suited for the present u.

if u dun let go, how will u noe u will never find someone better?

of coz say is easy, do is hard la.. all the best la!!

watever u do, must be happy!!

= )

[takkyboi]

well.... i think u need to be more mindful abt yourself and wat u wan..... if u think u r willing then be prepared to accept the results be it happy or sad cos that the decision u made..... but if u are not willing, then just move on....otherwise u will be feel worst.,...jus do the things that will make u happy..... and not do things that u think it will make u happy