Even if you don't get her back, you'll get back the you she fell in love with, and hopefully her friendship (though you may be lucky enough not to have lost that). Do NOT ask yourself how to get her back, don't even try. Figure out what went wrong and see if its something you can fix. If it is, it will happen with time. Effort will do you no good.
Nothing other than time can help you get over her or get her back.
Wow, I really think that this is breakup season. Maybe it's something in the air.
As much as you don't want to hear it, the truth is, you need to abandon all hope of getting back together. That hope will just tear you apart inside. It's one of the worst emotional tortures you can experience. Perhaps the best thing to do is distance yourself from her for a bit, until you can look at her without feeling hollow inside. Then start to connect with her again. If she's a real friend, she should be open to being friends again. You will get over this eventually, how long it takes depends on your attitude towards it. I've gotten over girlfriends in two weeks, but there are others who I dated 4 years ago that I still haven't fully gotten over.
This is going to hurt, there's not much you can do about that. But I can guarantee it will make you a stronger person when you come out of it. You'l just have to learn how to trust women again, and that can be pretty tough after something like this. My condolences, man. I hope you feel better
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Even if you don't get her back, you'll get back the you she fell in love with, and hopefully her friendship (though you may be lucky enough not to have lost that). Do NOT ask yourself how to get her back, don't even try. Figure out what went wrong and see if its something you can fix. If it is, it will happen with time. Effort will do you no good.
Nothing other than time can help you get over her or get her back.
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As much as you don't want to hear it, the truth is, you need to abandon all hope of getting back together. That hope will just tear you apart inside. It's one of the worst emotional tortures you can experience. Perhaps the best thing to do is distance yourself from her for a bit, until you can look at her without feeling hollow inside. Then start to connect with her again. If she's a real friend, she should be open to being friends again. You will get over this eventually, how long it takes depends on your attitude towards it. I've gotten over girlfriends in two weeks, but there are others who I dated 4 years ago that I still haven't fully gotten over.
This is going to hurt, there's not much you can do about that. But I can guarantee it will make you a stronger person when you come out of it. You'l just have to learn how to trust women again, and that can be pretty tough after something like this. My condolences, man. I hope you feel better
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