Another situation...

[boywillow]

David and I are having another big fight... This one even stupider than the last few. After he went out with Jolene last night, he decided he didn't want to go home because he was afraid he'd get in trouble with his mom. So he decides to stay at Jason's apartment, but without Jason or Erin. Just Sarah and Tony. His mother automatically assumes

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You did what you had to do....

[kammifreak]

You have to make him understand that he is a minor and that he cant get those rights of an 18 year old until he turns 18. Until then he has to act as a 16 year old with the rights of a 16 year old. He can only achieve these rights when he is old enough and mature enough. Tell him to just grow up and accecpt the fact that he is 16, and deal with it. Granted yes most of the group is 18 or older... We have all earned the rights of being 18 by waiting for them. Well i dont know what else to say. I hope this helps.

They all need growing up...

[kiwmogkitk]

You both are right, but they're all the same. Pat needs to grow up too, let him grow up, and hopefully he grows in your direction! If I've learned anything, it's to let things happen, don't hold on too tightly, or it'll slip through your fingers...Good luck babe.

[h_vulnerability]

Don't talk to me anymore Josh, I'm sick of your shit. Maybe I should have told Nadia or my Mom that I wasn't coming home last night(and I was considering it, wether you believe this or not), But you definately shouldn't have. You know how pissed I get when you tell her things and yet you disregard what I have to say(yet again) due to your own alleged 'moral obligations'. You aren't responisible for me or my actions, neither are you responsible to tell my mother things that you know that(especial when I don't want her to know, if you want to play that game, you should tell her Nadia got high at the apartment). So go ahead, write about it in Livejournal and gain your legion of support to justify your actions and make yourself feel better but I don't care who is on your side because this isn't about me wanting the rights of an 18 year old, its about you keeping your god damned mouth shut when I want and ask you to

[boywillow]

Are you ever going to learn to not act 12?

Goodbye David, for real this time. Don't come back. Just don't. Its for real this time.

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[h_vulnerability]

I'm not coming back Josh so don't worry, I hate this, I hate everything. The way you treat me and disregard what I say. When you fucking yell at me in the middle of the store or in front of your friends, or no matter how many times I tell you I don't like you telling my mom or sister something you still do it. I do hope you are happy, as for me I'm miserable.

David....David....David.....

[kammifreak]

I dont think you even realize what Josh has done for you. All this time that the 2 of you were together, he could have got in a lot of trouble because you were together. Being that you are a minor and he is 18.... In the eyes of the law that is illegal. Some would call that "jail-bait". Josh didnt care about the law and he wanted to be with you anyways. I think that says alot about him. Daivd you need to realize that we all love you and want the best for you. You just need to let things come to you. Though things may suck now it doesnt get any better when you get older. When you get older you have to get a job and then come bills and stupid people along the way. Not to say that there arent stupid people out there now. They get worse when you get older. Well thats all that I have to say for now. WAKE UP SMELL THE COFFEE AND GROW UP!!!!!!!!! YOU ARE 16 YEARS OLD NOT 18!!!!!!!!!!!!

[marching_girl]

First of all you did the right thing. You don't have to lie for David, that isn't your job. He should have told them the truth. I know your world may seem upside down right now, but it will be alright. Maybe you got off track with your friendships, so did I. But its funny, ya know. We always come back to the same spot. We have started over too many times to count. Some people haven't came back, but for the most part those who haven't come back it has been for the better. The rest of us seem to just weave in and outof our little friendship cirle. I can't speak for anyone else, so I'll just tell you what I know. I know that I love you Josh, and that no matter what happens I will be your friend. If you need help or are ever in trouble I am going to be here Josh. I will always come back...

[frogallthetime]

I know that I should be the last person to be writing anything about this given that David is my brother but I can't just not comment at all. So here goes. Joshua, I know this puts us in a weird spot but I think we should be used to that by now. You did the right thing. David I love you bro, but you need to pull your head out of your ass. Freedom can just as easily be taken away from you as it was given to you. Abuse the priveledge and the priveledge will disapear. Oh and you aren't 18, 19, 20 or 21 so act your age. Be happy you are 16. Less responsibility.