Wow, I'm glad I have warranted a whole journal entry devoted to the crises of me. I did act. I am still waiting...waiting...waiting. But I will call you when I get a reply. Merry Christmahannukwanza to you to, love.
good point. however, it can be hard to go get what you want because of fear. fear of rejection (if you're talking about relationships/love) and fear of what bad things can happen. it's hard to be sad/rejected/hurt. but living in fear is no good. you may never experience a great relationship or do something you will absolutely love if you don't get over fear. merry christmas to you too tom. xoxoxo
thats a cop out. Fear isnt reality. Its anything but. Ive never been afraid of part of my life. Only of what part of my life will become. That is fait. And thats what im saying people must control. Why they must act.
While I see what you're getting at... I'd much rather have someone who feels (but doesn't act) than someone who acts without feeling. It's true, not acting get's annoying, but I disagree with you when you say that feeling means nothing.
It might not get you very far (especially in starting a relationship)... but it means a lot.
That's just my opinion, of course. Sorry I missed you yesterday. I'm basically in love with my present. It's amazing (I...kinda opened it...before christmas *big grin* hope that's okay) annnnnnnnd... yea. Thank you! Merry Christmas eve!
im was trying to say that acting on feelings is what people must do, that feelings without an action following them is futile and stupid. I dont think feelings without actions have no point, im just saying that when it comes to love and life and you feel like you want something you must go get it. You must have heart.
It takes a lot to be fearless. It's very ahead of your time to act as you do, very brave and very bold, but there are many people for which that will come only after they've had such an enriching relationship. I think they have right to be afraid. If you like someone who is your friend, telling them can really change the relationship, so I think the fear is a sign of caring. And that's a good sign. I think fear is natural and necessary to learn lessons especially in love. I think it's more of a girl thing, but you're a lot better than most guys at truly expressing your feelings. And being fearless. But you do have a point in saying that feelings, if not acted upon, go to waste.
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Merry Christmahannukwanza to you to, love.
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however, it can be hard to go get what you want because of fear. fear of rejection (if you're talking about relationships/love) and fear of what bad things can happen. it's hard to be sad/rejected/hurt.
but living in fear is no good. you may never experience a great relationship or do something you will absolutely love if you don't get over fear.
merry christmas to you too tom.
xoxoxo
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It might not get you very far (especially in starting a relationship)... but it means a lot.
That's just my opinion, of course.
Sorry I missed you yesterday. I'm basically in love with my present. It's amazing (I...kinda opened it...before christmas *big grin* hope that's okay) annnnnnnnd... yea. Thank you!
Merry Christmas eve!
<3 Joyce
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O'course, I'm still of the thought that high school is too full of this kinda drama. I prefer to stay out of it.
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