Comments | brandiewine: 2008 sucks

brandiewine

2008 sucks

Mar 20, 2008 17:18

Can we kill this year? Please? A week from now my mom will be finding out if the lump she has is a lump that while not cancer will significantly increase her chances of cancer, or if it is cancer. All of the conversations where we've talked about if something happened to her and what would happen with my sisters became one of those things that ( Read more... )

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misslunakitty March 21 2008, 01:00:27 UTC

*huuuuuuuuuuuuuug*

brandiewine March 21 2008, 01:05:09 UTC

*Curls up in lap* Thank you.

hokeysmoke March 21 2008, 02:23:30 UTC

Here's the thing. Worrying is like rocking in a rocking chair. It doesn't accomplish anything, it just gives you something to do while you wait.

Rather than spending your time making yourself sick with worry, do something. Go visit your mom, scratch her back, rub her shoulders, do something nice for her and it will transfer back to you.

Sometimes, lumps are just lumps and there's nothing to them.

Also, *huuuuug*, just because.

brandiewine March 21 2008, 02:53:27 UTC

yes I know worrying is senseless and it may very well turn out to be just the one kind of lump. But one of the ways I describe my family is, "If we don't die of cancer, we live forever". Cause really thats how it works in my family. I'm working on the not worrying, and I'll be here if my mom needs me.

And thanks for the hug

elementalamber April 1 2008, 16:26:42 UTC

Any word on this yet? And ::hugs:: Let me know if I can help.

In better news, how were Tiff and BA?

brandiewine April 3 2008, 20:03:47 UTC

They were good. Making it.