Wanda's talk about Kay, Kathy, and Linda

Nov 21, 2011 22:32

People in this story:
Wanda - my mom, the voice of these events
Jack - my dad
Grandma - my mom's mother, died of ovarian cancer
Kay - my mom's sister, died of breast cancer
MaryGaile - my mom's other sister, died of breast cancer
Kathy - my mom's other sister, currently battling breast cancer
Linda - Kay's daughter, breast cancer survivor

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nafrate November 22 2011, 07:53:05 UTC
Wow. It's like something out of a movie! I hope that one day Linda and Kathy know the truth.

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frogger414 November 22 2011, 07:54:46 UTC
Wow. What a story! How do you feel about knowing all of this?

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breakableheart November 22 2011, 11:54:39 UTC
I have known that Kathy was Kay's daughter for many years. I've encouraged my mom to tell Kathy the truth for a long time. I'm glad I have more info so in case my mom dies without telling Kathy I will be able to give her solid information (if she wants it).

I didn't know about Linda and the other baby, but now that I do I feel good that I can give her some solid information too (if she wants it).

I wish my mom would talk to both of them before she dies. Kathy is battling breast cancer and I feel like Mom needs to clear this up with Kathy (if that's what Kathy wants) so Kathy can feel at peace with her own life and questions.

Mostly I think it is a sad story about another generation's prejudice and fear. The truth won't make a huge difference to anyone, really, unless they deeply want to know.

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frogger414 November 22 2011, 22:24:21 UTC
Mostly I think it is a sad story about another generation's prejudice and fear.

Agreed :(

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indiwise November 23 2011, 12:27:58 UTC
Wow. This is a tough one. And I agree about the generational prejudice and fear.

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