Commitment Issues - March 25, 2007

[breana_cae]

I just realized whenever I get to the commitment stage of a relationship, I start to freak out. Am I that scared of commitment or am I afraid that I won't be loyal? When I'm in panic attack mode I don't care if I cheat, I just have to kiss someone. I don't care who; the man most likely to kiss me back, AKA the man most likely to feel hurt. Is

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[anonymous]

It's more likely due to perfection, meaning...Is this the perfect person for me? Is their someone more perfect than this. Or it could be because of your cesserian birth and not being allowed to arrive naturally, therefore not having the certainty that you can make the right choice. Now that I think about it, I would venture to say that it is due to your cesserian birth. Trust me we all have doubts about our choices in marriage at some point, it's the nature of life. There is always going to be other people that you will feel attracted to. You have to ask yourself-Do I want a committed relationship where I feel loved, safe, accepted, able to grow or do I want to continue to look, party, have sex or whatever and perhaps never find anything better? From my perspective Ben is by far 100 times better than any other guy you have dated. Of course, I don't know everything about him only you do and only you can make a decision about a commitment like marriage. I could go on but would rather just talk by phone. I know you can and will make the

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[breana_cae]

Commitment was something I was worried about when I posted this back in March 25, 2007, which was when Ben and I first started dating. Since then, I've become more and more certain that Ben is the one for me and I for him. Well maybe not the latter, but he tells me so. I do worry from time to time and have to remind myself all the reasons why Ben is perfect for me, but I'm certain 99.9% of the time that he is.