Never apologize or explain for not wanting children. It's your decision and no one else's. I felt the the exact same way and I hated when people would tell me that I was being selfish or they just couldn't wrap their heads around it. I did change my mind and that was ok for me, but that doesn't mean you have to or that you will. I think you are perfectly perfect for not wanting to reproduce. Or get married. Who says you have to? I've never been one for doing things because 'they' say you're supposed to. I never cared about getting married since I knew we'd be together anyway, but we did end up getting married. I kept my last name. It drives some of my friend's husbands crazy that I didn't take my husband's last name. I don't know why, but it's like it insults THEM for some reason! For a long time I didn't wear my wedding band and it bothered a male co worker of mine, mainly 'cause it didn't fit anymore, but it really bugged him for some reason. I knew I was married and so did my husband so what difference did it make if I wore my ring
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" A ring on your finger doesn't make you more or less trustworthy, your heart does" I love that.
I understand as well, I'm going to school for massage therapy so if i were to ever change my mind and get married, I would NOT be able to wear my ring to work anyway! I'm completely supportive of people who choose to get married and have kids. Right now, I just need to do me. I'm open to having my mind changed, but I'm happy where I am, so I don't see any need to plan to change things! Don't fix it if it ain't broke haha.
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I understand as well, I'm going to school for massage therapy so if i were to ever change my mind and get married, I would NOT be able to wear my ring to work anyway! I'm completely supportive of people who choose to get married and have kids. Right now, I just need to do me. I'm open to having my mind changed, but I'm happy where I am, so I don't see any need to plan to change things! Don't fix it if it ain't broke haha.
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