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brebandi5

As simple as 123...

Nov 10, 2005 14:42

1. So its done. I'm single. And now I don't know what to do. I just need some insight from everyone. Some say to not talk to him, and some say I need to be there for him. I've gotten different advice from different people and I'm trying to make this decision on my own but its hard. I've never broken someone like this before. He calls and he calls ( Read more... )

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fairfaxmike November 10 2005, 23:32:24 UTC

talk to him but make sure he knows you both need space and that it is over, for good. maribel and i broke up a few days ago, and i know we will remain good friends, but i know i sure as hell need my space and probably wont delve below the superficial for quite some time.. does it hurt on the civilian side as much as it does for us?

brebandi5 November 10 2005, 23:39:03 UTC

of course it hurts as bad hun. its all the same hurt. people may deal with it different but i know that for me its hard to even just see pictures or hear songs that remind me of him.
i'm sorry to hear about you and maribel. military relationships are so hard. i hope your doing ok.
i hope i see you when you come home.

radizzle_1018 November 11 2005, 02:02:09 UTC

i think you should broaden your sexual horizons now that your single ;)

everybody is doing it! haha jk

and kids today man i dont know....the emo thing is ruining the world

mattorlando November 11 2005, 02:14:05 UTC

when are we going to have a baby?

we can artificially inseminate, i know how you are with penises in your vag.

radizzle_1018 November 11 2005, 08:39:31 UTC

hhhhahhhha hey lets take care of that little issue you and i talked about at wild flower...then we can talk about your penis in my vag

mattorlando November 11 2005, 02:20:03 UTC

1. you are really one of the nicest people on earth. thats why you feel like it is your responsibility to make him happy or ok with the situation. but really only he can do that. mike was right, you both need space.

2. i have no idea what to say about her. crazy kids is out of my league.

3. i know what you are saying when you feel stretched by having so many friends you want to keep close. relax though, we all love you and not everyone needs 100% of your attention all the time. buuuut there are some people who should be kept 100% in your life. not necessarily because you need them now or think you need them, but because they want to be there. and they want to be there as soon as you do need them.

jasontrocki November 11 2005, 06:36:33 UTC

Very well said.

_takenaway_ November 11 2005, 15:48:52 UTC

i definitely agree!

bottom_2_top November 11 2005, 21:35:30 UTC

take some time for yourself and get things right in your head... you are about to begin a whole new life that you didn't even think about a year ago, and if you try to do that while you're all messed up and confused or hurt inside it will be very detrimental... you can't build a new life on a messy foundation. all your friends are still going to be here when you've got it figured out.