Comments | bri_bread: ventalation

bri_bread

ventalation

Mar 07, 2005 22:29

so as some may know my grandma passed away on saturday.. the thing that kinda gets to me is that im not upset as much as i think i really should be.. im sad she is gone but its better than having her on life support in hoping that she will recover. even if she did she would be in a rest home for the remander of her life.. but am i not upset b/c im ( Read more... )

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not_strapped_in March 7 2005, 20:09:50 UTC

holy crap, i haven't read this yet...but that's the biggest entry of you LIFE!

not_strapped_in March 7 2005, 20:13:34 UTC

brian...holy crap.........

that is the most thoughtful thing i have ever read from you and seriously.....i have to go blow my nose cuz you have honesly made me cry. I love you babe, i hope this week gets by for you and your family okay. send some love to your mom, i've been really thinking about her lately and hope she's honestly doing alright. Gerble or no gerble.

love you

overdone_drama March 8 2005, 08:36:14 UTC

Brian I'm really sorry to hear about your loss. In writing that entry you are showing emotion, just not in a way that you think you should be showing (tears), having something fall from your eyes doesn't mean that you are showing any more emotion than if you were to simply write your thoughts. I hope that you and your family are going to be okay. You can call if you ever need anything.
Love,
BB

I feel you...... vikingsuperstar March 8 2005, 08:55:15 UTC

When I lost my Grandma I felt like the world's worst granddaughter. For real. She lived in this nursing home in Bloomfield Hills and she was bed ridden for 5 years. And even though I had moved to Michigan and was only 2 hours away from her for the last 2 years of her life, I only went to see her like 5 times. And I didn't write as often as I should have, and I didn't call as often as I should have. But I realized after losing her that even if we didn't talk that often, I was still her first grandchild and she loved me. And she is in a better place now where she is not stuck in a bed and alone. So things worked out in the end. But you are right in telling everyone to cherish thier grandparents. You don't know how much you can learn from them until they are gone. And Brian, what you wrote was really sweet. You know there are a million and one people who are here for you if you need them. (Me being one of them!)

my thoughts... i'll add to them all! im_groovy March 8 2005, 09:48:52 UTC

hey brian!! please send my regards to your family.... you mom and what not. i've never lost anyone close to me... but reading this made me realize that like in a minute they could be gone! if you ever need anything i'm here... you know where i live and my ##!! love ya babe! ~Missy