Just read your vague explanation on dinner and now I'm confused.
Did Roger know that you were alone for the weekend? Whether he did or not, why did he go to dinner with you bearing hopes for a Brian Kinney fuck? Because that's what your explanation implied in stating - I guess it was not what Roger expected, either...But he wasn't exactly clear what the parameters are, those times when you and I are apart. That's all.
This guy sounds like he has ulterior motives. Let's hope he's not using his kid just to get an in somewhere.
Do you honestly believe Roger is as dumb as he is acting?
From what you have shared before you made it clear in plain English what the odds are as far as sex between Roger and you is concerned.
Or have you been deliberately evasive? A man who uses words to cut to the chase for a living?
As I can't believe that I'm back to my original hunch that Roger wants to sleep with you. Big surprise!
Do you honestly believe that he is not playing you?
I felt for him when you talked about the situation wíth his son, the fact that he especially wants Justin to play a part here.
And that is Roger's way of showing any respect for Justin?
And if all this turns out to be a misunderstanding then you have been deliberately vague this time. There's really not much room for a different take, here.
I have officially stopped thinking that Roger could be a good thing. How many ways are there to tell someone No? That really sucksNeedless to say I agree with Lady Jane
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...(and if the damned judgmental bitches read it)...
Hmmm. Wow.
Well, I'm going to come across as 'judgemental', but whateverthefuck. No matter how you spin it, Roger still comes out looking like an ass. He's not worth all this drama.
I knew it. I knew it. I knew that in the twisty recesses of your mind that you were still hanging on to the chance that you could do what you have always have done and that somehow Justin would come to be okay with it.
I think that is why you have had such difficulty in committing to the new tricking rules whatever they are.
I am not blaming you here, Brian. I think that you have been struggling with this for a while and the scenario with Roger just forced you to realize what was at stake with Justin. I know it was very difficult for you to be honest here but don't think (well I hope)that the bitches will NOT condemn you for this. It is a big change in your life and understandable that it won't be painless for you. Following the theme of this thread. You are never dull, Brian. Nerve racking but never ever dull.
I just read your final comments to Justin. I think you are finally realizing that there are somethings that are just too important to jeopardize and Justin is one of them. I think you are doing great considering that you have no experience with the concept of "forever" (cause that is what the long haul is no matter what you call it). Trust your instincts, Brian, and remember that Justin wants your relationship to work as much as you do. Hugs to both of you.
I may be naive but I am hoping that maybe Roger could wind up a genuine friend.
I guess the best case scenario is to bring Justin in and see how he feels when you next meet up with Roger.
What does your gut tell you about Roger? You have said you know men. Do you think he has stopped wanting you?
Please don't stop talking to Justin or us. I think you are trying very hard for Justin. I also think you did the right thing, telling him everything, even if it hurt.
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Did Roger know that you were alone for the weekend? Whether he did or not, why did he go to dinner with you bearing hopes for a Brian Kinney fuck? Because that's what your explanation implied in stating - I guess it was not what Roger expected, either...But he wasn't exactly clear what the parameters are, those times when you and I are apart. That's all.
This guy sounds like he has ulterior motives. Let's hope he's not using his kid just to get an in somewhere.
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Do you honestly believe Roger is as dumb as he is acting?
From what you have shared before you made it clear in plain English what the odds are as far as sex between Roger and you is concerned.
Or have you been deliberately evasive?
A man who uses words to cut to the chase for a living?
As I can't believe that I'm back to my original hunch that Roger wants to sleep with you. Big surprise!
Do you honestly believe that he is not playing you?
I felt for him when you talked about the situation wíth his son, the fact that he especially wants Justin to play a part here.
And that is Roger's way of showing any respect for Justin?
And if all this turns out to be a misunderstanding then you have been deliberately vague this time.
There's really not much room for a different take, here.
I have officially stopped thinking that Roger could be a good thing. How many ways are there to tell someone No? That really sucksNeedless to say I agree with Lady Jane ( ... )
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Hmmm. Wow.
Well, I'm going to come across as 'judgemental', but whateverthefuck. No matter how you spin it, Roger still comes out looking like an ass. He's not worth all this drama.
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I think that is why you have had such difficulty in committing to the new tricking rules whatever they are.
I am not blaming you here, Brian. I think that you have been struggling with this for a while and the scenario with Roger just forced you to realize what was at stake with Justin. I know it was very difficult for you to be honest here but don't think (well I hope)that the bitches will NOT condemn you for this. It is a big change in your life and understandable that it won't be painless for you. Following the theme of this thread. You are never dull, Brian. Nerve racking but never ever dull.
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I guess the best case scenario is to bring Justin in and see how he feels when you next meet up with Roger.
What does your gut tell you about Roger? You have said you know men. Do you think he has stopped wanting you?
Please don't stop talking to Justin or us. I think you are trying very hard for Justin. I also think you did the right thing, telling him everything, even if it hurt.
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