Brian sometimes you cannot control everything and everyone shock I know. Lindsay is a passive/agressive person especially when dealing with you, take it easier on her she is scared as well. Good idea getting an apartment for the interim period you need your space when your there, but more importantly Justin needs to able to decompress as well, as you well know dealing with the munchers is no picnic :)Chris
You're wrong - dealing with the munchers is ALWAYS a picnic - complete with ants, a thunder storm, and e-coli from tainted mayonnaise on the potato salad.
Hey Brian, I won't say the J word, but your last post sounded just a teensy bit irrational. Justin said no to the guy, the guy backed off, it's over. Justin isn't interested in him (or in Charley, or in any other phantoms you might have in your head). Just trust him, and trust your relationship. You have enough to worry about already without torturing yourself over this. (Though I wonder whether maybe you'd rather "stew" over something relatively inconsequential than think about what else is going on...)
Anyway, I hope you can make it back up to Toronto soon. Till then, hang in there. Maybe have some hot phone sex? :-)
Dr. Freud, I presume? I am not "stewing" over ANYTHING. Justin insisted on disclosing some details of his supposedly unwanted encounter of the realtor kind, so maybe you should address your analyzing skills to him instead of me. I don't worry about inconsequential things and NEVER "torture" myself about anything whatsoever.
However, if you're really a doctor, I'll assume your hot phone sex suggestion is a prescription. If the lad can get some privacy to call me, I'll share your medical advice with him.
I was taken off guard, waiting for Mel to drop the other shoe - you know, find a way to twist around her "thanks" and stick it to me somehow. And she did
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I know you mean well, but Justin cannot possibly want to be taken for granted. And no matter what anyone says, putting this burden on his shoulders is unconscionable, even for me (yes, I know myself well). It's not right for him to always sacrifice the way he does. I've tried to teach him to be selfish, he always says he learns many things from the master, but he hasn't learned this lesson yet.
The only thing you're right about is Mel's intentions. See, the one time I give her the benefit of the doubt, I am wrong!
Interesting observation about law school. I don't know many lawyers intimately, so I'm not sure about this particular truism. I'll have to check with my sources.
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Lindsay is a passive/agressive person especially when dealing with you, take it easier on her she is scared as well.
Good idea getting an apartment for the interim period you need your space when your there, but more importantly Justin needs to able to decompress as well, as you well know dealing with the munchers is no picnic :)Chris
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Anyway, I hope you can make it back up to Toronto soon. Till then, hang in there. Maybe have some hot phone sex? :-)
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However, if you're really a doctor, I'll assume your hot phone sex suggestion is a prescription. If the lad can get some privacy to call me, I'll share your medical advice with him.
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The only thing you're right about is Mel's intentions. See, the one time I give her the benefit of the doubt, I am wrong!
Interesting observation about law school. I don't know many lawyers intimately, so I'm not sure about this particular truism. I'll have to check with my sources.
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You're not doing that, you know that's not what I'm saying.
I've tried to teach him to be selfish, he always says he learns many things from the master, but he hasn't learned this lesson yet
Justin's a great student - he follows the "do as I do, not as I say" rule. By that rule, he's learning from you very well.
I'll have to check with my sources.
Heh. I know lots of lawyers. They're slick.
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