I really think you both need to improve your communication skills with one another otherwise you are just going to revisit this argument every time that you disagree. I know that you hate to discuss this stuff but Justin needs to. You need to talk a bit more, maybe explain your reasoning and maybe even get his input and he needs to learn to let things go when he doesn't get his own way. A bit of compromise would, I am sure,make things a lot more comfortable (less arguing would leave more time for important things like fucking).
I am just cross-posting my comment to Justin as it says all I want to say to both of you.
Justin, you have had in the past and do have now, a family that is loving and caring and wants to help. Brian has never had nor does he understand that. That someone could offer help with no strings attached is something he doesn't "get". I could have bet all I owned on what his reaction would be and I was right but that doesn't excuse him belittling you and insinuating you have no pride, that was uncalled for. Why is it that you two cannot talk to each other? You both seem to react, reject and hurt, have neither of you heard of rational discussion and compromise. The same old lack of comunication rears its ugly head over and over again. I really hope you two can sort this out, you are both hurting each other so much. I think you both need to say "I'm sorry" and for fucks sake talk to each other but without anger and resentment.Brian please sort this out, talk to Justin don't just reject his opinion or needs outright. Ask him calmly to try and
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Oh yeah, I forgot about this conversation. We decided to leave it alone, if I remember correctly. Or anyway, I made that decision and he hasn't brought it up again.
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A rather good likeness, actually. Something about the size of the balls, I think.
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Yes! I thought that! "Look at da siza dem harbles!!!"
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I really think you both need to improve your communication skills with one another otherwise you are just going to revisit this argument every time that you disagree. I know that you hate to discuss this stuff but Justin needs to. You need to talk a bit more, maybe explain your reasoning and maybe even get his input and he needs to learn to let things go when he doesn't get his own way. A bit of compromise would, I am sure,make things a lot more comfortable (less arguing would leave more time for important things like fucking).
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Justin, you have had in the past and do have now, a family that is loving and caring and wants to help. Brian has never had nor does he understand that. That someone could offer help with no strings attached is something he doesn't "get".
I could have bet all I owned on what his reaction would be and I was right but that doesn't excuse him belittling you and insinuating you have no pride, that was uncalled for.
Why is it that you two cannot talk to each other? You both seem to react, reject and hurt, have neither of you heard of rational discussion and compromise. The same old lack of comunication rears its ugly head over and over again.
I really hope you two can sort this out, you are both hurting each other so much.
I think you both need to say "I'm sorry" and for fucks sake talk to each other but without anger and resentment.Brian please sort this out, talk to Justin don't just reject his opinion or needs outright. Ask him calmly to try and ( ... )
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