lost

[bridgeswillfall]

I'm almost uncertain if i want to write this here, i'm not even sure that anyone still reads this. but i' so lost right now and uncertain with things. The guy i've been seeing has a drinking problem and it's pretty much been getting worse and worse over the weeks. He spent all last weekend drunk at his friends house in CT. I was in south

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[dizenchanted]

The only thing you can do is wait. You were right to help him because it was instinctual. He asked for you help and that's all you could give. It sucks having to be involved in something so emotionally strenuous when it really "isn't your problem", but what these people need is the attention and concern. You did the right thing and you should not feel guilty for either a)not wanting to contribute any further, or b) not being able to come up with anything else to do. You did your part and may have aided in someone getting their life on track. If, in the end, nothing changes on his part, then your karma will be clear. You tried your best and did what you knew how to do. The rest is in his hands.

[bridgeswillfall]

thanks hun ;) I'm just trying to get myself back on track and start taking care of myself again. in the end i'm just happy he's finally getting help.