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[brigid_tanner]

Been a while since I've been here. My dad was diagnosed with Multiple Myeloma in 2014, and I kinda quit a lot of things to spend time with him. He died in May of 2016. I moved in with my mom to take care of her. It was more us taking care of each other. I cooked and she cleaned up the kitchen. We watched the news and ate dinner watching Wheel of

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[borgmama1of5]

I am so sorry for your loss and the hardship of not being able to have a real closure.

[chemm80]

Oh I’m so sorry for your loss. Both of them. It’s good to hear that you still have fandom connections to lean on. If I recall correctly I met you at the very first SPN con I went to, (but it’s been a long time!)

[halfshellvenus]

I'm so sorry about your dad and mom. What a tough time you've had these last six years.

It's especially hard to be losing someone right now. Because there are no memorial services, it feels as if loved ones are not getting their due-- that recognition of who they were and the many lives they touched. It feels unfair to them, and it sure makes it harder on those they leave behind. The shared grief and devastation are part of the healing process, in knowing that the person you loved and are missing so much is also mourned by others.

I haven't been reading or writing SPN for about 8 years now, so I'm afraid I can't help you with that last part. But I'm sure glad to see you back!

*hugs* to you.

[tolakasa]

I'm so sorry for your losses.