this is horrible! just horrible! i cant believe that anybody (including someone you love) could hurt you. you dont deserve to be treated this way, and even if he loves you he never would have hurt you in the first place. as bad as it sounds, would he be saying all those things if he hadnt got caught cheating? i think you should firmly stand your ground about not getting back together. he doesnt deserve you. you deserve someone you can truly trust. even if he did change, it would be so hard for you to trust him again. you deserve the best, and obviously this guy failed to offer it to you. you know in your heart he really hurt you, and that you want to spend the rest of your life with someone who loves and respects you. never ever settle for anything less than mr. perfect. if you ever need someone to talk to, you are welcome to call me anytime. i understand and i am willing to help with anything i can. <3
It is sad to think the ones you love will hurt you. He is not right for you. You may love him, but there will be many loves and trust me one that will treat you much better. Here is a tip, if you don't just break contact with him and you talk to him sunday you will more than likely forgive him, and then tke him back. He would have learned nothing and the past will repeat itself. Make a change for the better leave him. If later down the road (2 to 3 years down the road) he comes back says he chnage then you have reason to think he has changed for the better. Until then he hasn't and he will continue doing what he is doing. Don't give him what he wants. Just leave him otherwise this will be one ever revoling, never evoling scenerio, and you will be unhappy with it.
three years of cheating...but wasnt it known?
anonymous
July 13 2004, 02:21:58 UTC
he does this to every one of his gf's consistantly. the phrase "i want to grow old with you" has spilled out of todds lips more times that you could dream imaginable. pick it up and move on... and away from c.s.-- that was truly a bad move.
who said this??bringdapieJuly 13 2004, 02:27:32 UTC
Yes, todd has a past...we all know that, i kinda hoped that things would have been different with me but i know that they weren't. I dont agree that moving to cs was a bad move. I didnt move here for him, i did it for myself, and to start over. I needed to find a school and A&M was the best choice for me. I am moving on with my life, for good this time. Thanks for the comment though. I would like to know who this is though...
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He is not right for you. You may love him, but there will be many loves and trust me one that will treat you much better.
Here is a tip, if you don't just break contact with him and you talk to him sunday you will more than likely forgive him, and then tke him back. He would have learned nothing and the past will repeat itself.
Make a change for the better leave him. If later down the road (2 to 3 years down the road) he comes back says he chnage then you have reason to think he has changed for the better. Until then he hasn't and he will continue doing what he is doing. Don't give him what he wants. Just leave him otherwise this will be one ever revoling, never evoling scenerio, and you will be unhappy with it.
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he is scum. all he can do is hurt you and say "im sorry"
not to sound rude...but get over him. he is not worth your time!!!
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