how do you tell someone that the reason you're snappy towards them is that THEY bring you down with their bad moods and constant complaints
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to your second question - i notice immediately (rather than a while into it) that my friend isnt as giving as i am in the relationship, but what do i do? i ignore the problem until it eventually blows over. and truthfully, for a while that works. but when it comes to the point where youve tried so hard u just dont want to try. u dont just ignore- you give up. two days ago, i finally sucked it in, and confronted my friend about how she WASNT giving her all. i just told her flat out how shitty she's made me feel about our relationship. and things have gotten much better- in just two days! i hope you arent in the same situation as i was, or as i am. but i want to give u the best advice- which is dont ignore the problem, confront that person. its hard to (once again) take the initiative, but i regret not doing it sooner. i even got an appology, which proved she is beginning to take ownership of what she did wrong and fix things. loves&misses
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