:( I'm so sorry sweetie. I don't even know what to say. That is simply horrible. But, if it's any consolation, I think you're better than he is, you're stronger than he is, and frankly you two aren't related, so I don't think you even really need to refer to him as "dad" doing so gives him a sort of... well, it gives him a very small amount of control because he can pull that bull shit that he just did with the "I'm your father so you have to listen to me" I don't really know how much you think you should stand up to him before it gets dangerous, but next time he tries to pull that, you can try saying "no, a dad is not in the genetics, it's in the relationship you have with your child, and as far as I'm concerned, you and I don't have one." And even if you can't say it to his face or to his ear, say it to his picture over and over, I think it may help. Maybe. I don't know. But really, if you ever, ever, EVER need ANYTHING, feel free to give me a call. You're a wonderful person, and it's horrible how life has a way of punishing
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