I'm Curious....

Jan 12, 2005 21:26

to know..............

what you think........

Is homosexuality genetic, more biological.....is it learned...is it enviromental...is it passed on, it is a disease.....is it something that is cureable?...

Is the same sex interesting to you?...do you secretly like someone of the same sex?...Do you just ever wonder?....and if u do wonder...but haven't ( Read more... )

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huck7 January 13 2005, 18:38:46 UTC
id have to go with genetic/biological. i think your enviornment plays a part in how long you stay in the closet. if you have been taught gay is bad, or have a very religious family/background, live in a smaller more close minded community. theres a thousand different scenarios but i think you get the drift ( ... )

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tomatobeans January 13 2005, 22:48:46 UTC
I personally think that human sexuality isn't black and white. I don't think you are either gay or straight. I know a lot of people disagree with me, but I think everyone is bisexual, it's all a matter of degrees. I personally don't like to label myself or my sexuality. Right now I prefer women, so that would make me a lesbian to a lot of people, but I have been in love with men in the past, so who knows. I could fall in love with a woman, a man, or a tranny. It's all good with me. I think that if there weren't so many people out there against homosexuality and we weren't taught from day one by society that gay=bad and gross than there would be a lot more gay/bisexual people out there. The more it is okay to be gay, the more gay or bi people you are going to see. There are gay and bisexual animals in almost every species on Earth, so that should tell us something. My two cents anyway...

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_uh_huh_him_ January 16 2005, 11:31:08 UTC
I really have no idea, because I don't think it can be explained by just one thing, but if I'd have to say something, I'd say it's more biological.

I'm bisexual myself.. I don't think that having a crush, or even having sex with a person who's the same sex, necessarily makes you gay. People can enjoy physical contact even if they're not particularly attracted to the person, and have crushes even if they'd never actually want to be with the person. That happens. But, I think you are gay(or bi) when you are ready to have a relationship and want to connect on various level with the person.
For a long time I actually though I was gay. I like boys more than girls, and I can't really explain my sexuality with a label, but sadly that's something we are all forced to do. Generally I find boys, their bodies and minds more attractive, but there have been exceptions. I've been judged by straight and gay people, but I've learned to deal with that, and also, I wouldn't change even if I could. What matters is that I know what I like and enjoy.

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hellionweazl June 19 2005, 06:45:30 UTC
homosexuality can be a combination of all of those things you listed.. except a disease or curable! sexuality is something that is part of you, and is effected by all kinds of biological and social things. in my experience, we love people for who they are, not their genitalia.

i love same sex sex. i openly like people of both sexes and of those in between! i fear hatred from others, but it doesn't stop me from doing anything! i can only be myself.

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