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[brunettezine]

ugh. my sister and my mother, i dont know which one i'd like to strangle more.

my sister called earlier today. when i said hello she started off with a bitchy tone in her voice.

her--"so when is you wedding thing anyway?"

me--"either on the 16th or the 30th"

her--"ugh. great. can't you change it?"

me--"no.....why?"

her--"because my dad is

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whoa!

[failsafeheart]

why not just elope and ask for $$ donations!?

[hizzah]

Elope, that's what I've been sayin'...but anyway....Marlene is it safe to disregard the reply to my reply that you sent the other day? Just wondering because if not, this is all very confusing.

[brunettezine]

its hard to say really. things are ok for now, but things are about at 30% of what they should normally be. but we'll see.

[masqueraded]

I know that there is a fine line when it comes to family ties. I hate to say this but,this is something you need to do for you and for Mark and even your daughter (your immediate family). If everyone is going to play the selfish card and expect you to roll over at a whim for them then they don't need to go.
When my mother married my father my grandmother wouldn't go and wouldn't allow any of her sisters to go either because she wasn't getting married in a church. It sucks not having the support but there will be others there to cheer you on and help you when you need it.
Good luck.

[elabeth]

Run away to Vegas. I'll call up Rev. Chip and have him meet you with the limo at the airport. heehee
Seriously though, don't back down and don't forgive that bastard. Some things are just unforgivable and that sounds like one of them.
I wouldn't be surprised though if your mom starts holding the money over your head to make you change the date. As in "If you don't change it then I'm not paying". Sad, but it could happen so try to be prepared for that.

[deborahthecraft]

Wow.You really get it from all angles hu?

I say tell the sis that you ARE having it on one date or the other and she can come or not.

My sister and I are on fine terms(not best friends because we have NOTHING in common but were not enemies) and niether of us went to each others...and were twins(people seem to think that makes a big differance).

(I eloped and hers was at a time I couldn't get off of work and didn't have the $ to go anyway)
Plan it about you and Mark and Hazel and screw those who don't come.Its not ABOUT THEM anyway.