Comments | bsilly: Letting Go

bsilly

Letting Go

Aug 25, 2004 11:04

In my 28 years of life I can only really remember having to let go of something or someone that was bad for me maybe 3 or 4 times. I guess that's not really that bad all things considered, but each time it was a horrible experience and took me forever to do. I really really suck at letting go. Now I'm faced with letting go of something that has ( Read more... )

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obnoxiousfem August 25 2004, 12:12:03 UTC

It's much better to remove the drama. . . especially when you've got a lot going on already that has your thoughts and mind elsewhere. ::hugs::

And I don't think you're being over-dramatic at all. . . When you've spent so much of your life doing something, it does matter. . . internet or not.

bsilly August 26 2004, 09:06:37 UTC

Thank you nikki ::hugs::

inscience August 25 2004, 16:33:41 UTC

I have no idea what you're talking about and I won't assume, because you know what they say when you assume. ;) Also, I'm still on my honeymoon we just came to the library to use the internet to get directions to a place we want to go but I just want to say that I love you and you're a great friend and I know that we're not close at all or anything but I still think you're a friend and I know that whatever you do in life and whatever happens happens for a reason. I'll pray for you and I hope you feel better and I hope things start going better for you.

bsilly August 26 2004, 09:07:22 UTC

Thank you lacey, Congrats! I hope you are enjoying your honeymoon.

ravagedspirit August 26 2004, 04:59:52 UTC

becky.. we go back those eight years. i have a feeling i know exactly what you're talking about. i think right now you need to focus on YOU and your father and nobody else. perhaps you should wait to let go until your life has settled down a little, as i know letting go would be removing one of the biggest support systems in your life. i think you know what the right choice is, and i know you've already made it. now you just have to figure out when the right time is. good luck.

bsilly August 26 2004, 09:05:45 UTC

YT perhaps used to be a great diversion if not a support system, all it is anymore is grief. Which is exactly why it should be so easy to just let it go... my head tells me this, my heart however is stubborn and doesn't want to let go. I am already having to let go of my father, which is one of the hardest things I've ever faced, now I need to let go of YT also at the same time? I wonder does life ever get easier?

ravagedspirit August 26 2004, 10:35:35 UTC

Becky - we've all grown up. We've gotten older. It was easier for everyone to follow the rules when we were 13 years old. The YT people will stay if you keep the room where it is. Why don't you just detach the room from the website and let it be an anything goes room? It can be our little support system on chatspace that no minors can link themselves to. We can keep the YT site going - I'm willing to help, although I know there's not a lot I can do and I really don't have the knowledge. It will save yourself great heartache if you just let everyone be themselves and have a good time in the chatroom instead of tiptoe-ing around because it's supposed to be a kids room. Just a suggestion - and I know I've promised you things like this before and backed out but if you need help with it give me a buzz. You know where to find me.