A myspace blog I wrote Oct 2005...What I want and what I believe.

[bsutimmay]

I believe that I was brought into this world to help people. The thing that interests me most is marriage and love. I wrote a small review on what love could be. Is there a thing called love at first site or is love something that builds up over time? How do we know when we are in love and how will we act once we are? Is love worth the risk

Comments

[anonymous]

"I want to find a girlfriend who can share the same interests and be a dork like me. I want to find someone to trust and love and all that kinda gay stuff"

As a random reader, you gotta realize.. calling something gay as a derogatory comment will make just about any smart and decent girl say "Wow, this guy's a fucking idiot."

About the comment

[bsutimmay]

I appreciate your random thoughts Mrs. random reader, but one thing you might not know is that that word gay in my passage was not meant to be degrogatory. If you read my passage the way any true romantic and intelligent person would, you would realize the word gay means "happy, joyful or lively." I want to find someone to be happy or alive with. I want to find that girl who will bring joy to my life. I want to find love and trust and all that "gay" stuff. Understand??? If that is better for you I am sorry for your misunderstanding. You taking the word gay and making it into a degrogatory word says that you are nothing but a typical stereotypical person of the 21st century. If you knew me as a person you would know I am a romantic guy. I am also a person who, thought a little homophobic, is willing to do anything for my friends...straight, bi, or homosexual. Thanks