I am not enough.
I went down home for Father's day, filled with love for my family. We did the things we always do on our Father/Daughter dates; breakast, cafe, bookstore, movies, etc. And this weekend just showed me how much I don't belong with the people dearest to me anymore. I no longer fit in there; not just the area, but with my family, my parents, my
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Repeat after me:
I am me, and that is all I ever need to be.
You know I love you, so I'm putting this in writing: stop trying to be what you think everyone else wants you to be. It will never work and it will only lead to more bleagh. Who your father, husband, (insert name here) wants you to be is a reflection of themselves, and you are much better than that. You are more than that. The fact that others are trying to make you conform to some idea of who they feel you should be reinforces that.
If you are seeing yourself in other places, in other settings, doing different things, then you are. There is no shame in that. While the idea of change is terrifying, you know what standing still will get you. Even taking cautionary steps in any direction is better than standing still while sinking.
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