I'm so sorry you are going through this. Sometimes I just remind myself that this pain that we feel when we say goodbye to them is price we have to pay for being loved by such amazing friends.
I know the pain of depression, and the joy our furry friends bring us. I'm so sorry and hope you can find some peace in the coming days.
If you ever need someone to talk to about it, please don't hesitate to talk to contact me. I'll just listen, if you like.
Im sorry you had to let your baby go :( MY bestfriend Katie died feb 2nd 07. I didnt get to say goodbye to her. I grew up with her, as you grew up with him. She was my only friend in the whole world. I cant say it gets better because it hasnt for me.. If you can get any comfort from this...My katie..she loved everyone. Shell keep him safe on the rainbow bridge. I bet they are hanging out right now. Im sorry you had to let him go...No one should have to live with this pain.
But your not alone...I cry everyday and its been 9 months.
I agree. There may be people that tell you its stupid to mourn and animal or to get another one...my response was always a nasty "when if your mother dies, remind me to tell you you're being stupid and to go get a new mother" My grief would briefly be channeled into anger. Most of the time theyd go away.
I too kept momentos of my baby. I still have some gods of her fur in a ziploc and sometimes I open it and I can still smell her....then I cry. ALmost 4 years and I cry, but the pain does lessen
I'm so so sorry. I have depression and anxiety and my dog Missy was always there for me and when she passed away it was so hard for me, and still is. He looks like he was such a beautiful dog. If you need to talk you can add my lj.
My baby had to go to sleep in Jan 04. 5 still miss her every day. She was to me what your baby was to you. I also have depression. I know it hurts, I know how much it hurts now. I know it hurts worse than any physical pain. I tear up whenever I type one of these replies. I'm tearing now. Grieve and mourn, cry and rage. Love and remember. Just hold on. You are NOT alone. And I promise you the pain will lessen, it will not go away, but it will lessen. You just must do what he'd want you to do....live. Try to imagine his nose nudging you from bed from heaven. Because he is there with you.
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I'm so sorry you are going through this. Sometimes I just remind myself that this pain that we feel when we say goodbye to them is price we have to pay for being loved by such amazing friends.
I know the pain of depression, and the joy our furry friends bring us. I'm so sorry and hope you can find some peace in the coming days.
If you ever need someone to talk to about it, please don't hesitate to talk to contact me. I'll just listen, if you like.
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MY bestfriend Katie died feb 2nd 07. I didnt get to say goodbye to her.
I grew up with her, as you grew up with him.
She was my only friend in the whole world.
I cant say it gets better because it hasnt for me..
If you can get any comfort from this...My katie..she loved everyone.
Shell keep him safe on the rainbow bridge. I bet they are hanging out right now.
Im sorry you had to let him go...No one should have to live with this pain.
But your not alone...I cry everyday and its been 9 months.
*hugs*
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I too kept momentos of my baby. I still have some gods of her fur in a ziploc and sometimes I open it and I can still smell her....then I cry. ALmost 4 years and I cry, but the pain does lessen
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I have depression and anxiety and my dog Missy was always there for me and when she passed away it was so hard for me, and still is.
He looks like he was such a beautiful dog.
If you need to talk you can add my lj.
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She was to me what your baby was to you. I also have depression.
I know it hurts, I know how much it hurts now. I know it hurts worse than any physical pain. I tear up whenever I type one of these replies. I'm tearing now.
Grieve and mourn, cry and rage. Love and remember. Just hold on.
You are NOT alone.
And I promise you the pain will lessen, it will not go away, but it will lessen. You just must do what he'd want you to do....live.
Try to imagine his nose nudging you from bed from heaven. Because he is there with you.
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