Wow. I didn't realize that your sister felt that way. BIG HUGS! (in a completely platonic way) I think we all go through changes and yours came in waves. First the weight and then the change inside. We all KNOW that you are a fabulous person with a great personality and you're right, you are the complete package. Good for C-Go for scooping you up! I can see your sister being jealous. It sounds likes she always relied on being popular and pretty and never focused on the rest of her. Your mom was trying to be nice to her, but, her words must have hurt you too. Hopefully, your sister will see that the things you are doing are to make you a better, happier person and you're not doing them to attack her. As we're fond of saying in Bill's family "it's not all about you!" BIL and SIL have a habit of acting like your sis, so, typically, it's aimed at them. Stay strong!
You are better!kimdawnOctober 27 2004, 06:22:22 UTC
Tom...just want to say that I have such growth in you physically and mentally. Know that I love ya and think you are an awesome person...inside and out!
what a fucked up thing for your mom to say, just because she didn't mean for you to hear it doesn't mean she should have said it. It sounds like your sister wasn't exactly all put together either so it's not like she was all straightened out on the inside especially if she was crying just because she thought you were more popular than she was.
God I love my brother, i'm very envious of my brother because he was always smarter and more talented than i was and definitely more popular. But I loved him and I was happy for his success and I was ALWAYS ALWAYS incredibly proud of him.
I was only upset when I thought my parents loved him more than me, which honestly I still think. but ah well.. i loved my dad more than my mom which she's accused me of.. so i guess they can love him more than me.
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God I love my brother, i'm very envious of my brother because he was always smarter and more talented than i was and definitely more popular. But I loved him and I was happy for his success and I was ALWAYS ALWAYS incredibly proud of him.
I was only upset when I thought my parents loved him more than me, which honestly I still think. but ah well.. i loved my dad more than my mom which she's accused me of.. so i guess they can love him more than me.
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