Comments | buka312: WTF

buka312

WTF

Jul 23, 2005 17:59

What kind of relationship is one that is great one day, and then next seems to be all tripped up on drugs? Tonight is my 6 month anniversary with my boyfriend and as I was getting ready, he informs me that he doesn't want to go out. I said that's fine and now it's going to turn into a fight. I don't know why he is mad. If anyone has the right to be ( Read more... )

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trentismyhero July 24 2005, 05:56:02 UTC

That's stupid.

but happy anniversary.. Tomorrow's my 1 year, 11 months :D

anonymous July 24 2005, 06:07:39 UTC

I drove around tonight at 1 in the morning to try and find some way to show you how much you mean to me. I relized that i had made a mistake in not going out with you tonight. sometimes its hard for me to love, when i dont even like myself. Its hard to think someone as beautiful and sweet could like me. Lately my head has been fucked up and the only way to fix it is to just be by myself. I wanted to buy you flowers or even throw something at your window to wake you up and just hold you, but nothing was open and when i got to your house i chickened out. Im sorry, you deserve better the what happened tonight. Nothing in life is a guarantee, especially tomorrow but today i know i love you.

dreamsofangels3 July 26 2005, 03:30:42 UTC

awww that is the sweetest thing I have ever read :)

anonymous July 26 2005, 15:56:52 UTC

no it's not, it's total B/S. he's just sayin all that to make her feel bad for being mad at him and to make her think that he's really sorry (which i doubt he is)

haha anonymous July 26 2005, 00:08:10 UTC

wow thats crap...

anonymous July 28 2005, 02:48:04 UTC

and that's not a hint that the whole relationship is bs and is headed absolutely nowhere?

thejeffa July 29 2005, 04:13:00 UTC

instead of making them both feel like shit why dont you let them make their own decisions. Its their relationship, not yours. And no matter how bad you think the situation is, they are gonna do whatever it is that they want to do with their relationships. As for whatever issue you were having, relationships are hard, they take a lot of work. Everyone thinks they are easy and your in love and there are a couple fights but its much more complicated. Nobody realizes it till they are very far down the road that if its gonna work, its gonna take some work. Everyone makes mistakes and much like life, love has a tendancy to throw you a curve ball. Just take it like it is dont base how your entire relationship is going on that point, one minute its good then we're on drugs. Just work out the problem, and instead of fighting, try calmly taking about it and maybe come up with an alternative. Patience is key to a relationship. I am sure you already knew most of this but sometimes when your all caught up, its good to be reassured.

thejeffa July 29 2005, 21:38:28 UTC

She's only asking for it by posting it here (drama queen creating drama...) True, they will have fights and are going to have to work at their relationship to keep it going, but they both obviously need to realize that or it's gonna be over pretty soon, since neither seems to be working at it.

I agree with ---^ thejeffa August 1 2005, 01:34:45 UTC

I agree with the person above. Of course couples will fight and relationships are hard and do need to be worked on but if one person is head over heels and the other seems to not care then it wont last long. Someone who ditches you all the time (and especially on a day thats important to you like an anniversary)and makes you upset or cry a lot one minute and the next is all lovey dovey, chances are doesnt really care about you. Someone who really loved you or even really cared about you would do shit like that to you...