Ahhh the dilema!

[bumble_b_babe]

ok, so yesterday i went to the letterbox as normal to get the post, and i found a letter for me (which is extremyl abnormal) so what did i do...um open it duh

Comments

[xo_never_again]

have you talked with your dad about this?
maybe thats the first thing you should do.

<3
good luck

[bumble_b_babe]

yeah i havent told him yet, i will tho

mum knows, and she just laughed it off :(

[chunnabee]

id do it. screw the parents.
if you ever regret not going, that would suck.

never leave room for "what if..?"s.
neverrrrr.

[bumble_b_babe]

yeah, i dont like "what if's"
thanks janey :)

[bcefreak]

i think (kinda like jane said) you should do it if you feel that you would regret not getting to know her. If she is your only grandparent left and probablly the only link to that side of the family maybe you should give it a go... if it really doesnt work out you can say oh well at least i gave it a try and it wont bug you for ages. if it does work out...
i dont want to give you the wrong advice in this situation for example will it hurt your parents that your going to meet her?
i dont know. but to be honest i think it would be good to meet her...
We had our little family feud (not quite this type of situation) and it gets pretty intense
let us know what you are thinking about doing xxx

[bumble_b_babe]

yeah, mm, it wont hurt them, its just so hard, its like meeting a person for the first time, but u instantly have to love them, and thats like impossible, argh i dunno :(