Sorry Steph. I understand why you'd be upset. You went through a lot. I didn 't know you last year, or else I would have gone to see you all the time - you know that. I didn't even hear about what happened to you through people we both know, but I'm sure I would have been worried. I would have felt the same way about a card or something - if I don't really know someone, its wrong to only get to know them/ be nice because something happened, like you said. Mollie is only a casual friend of mine, so maybe I shouldn't have been the one with the card at lunch, but I didn't make it....
Anyway, you deserved so much more than a card for what you went through. I'm sorry it went the way it did. -Erin
that was rude
anonymous
June 24 2005, 04:25:35 UTC
I honestly can not believe you just said that. I think that is very rude. You obviously didnt almost die last year or people would have spread the word. I know you and i know your friends and never once did they say anything was seriously wrong with you. I am sure you deserved a card, but that doesnt mean molly didnt. The girl was laying on the side of the road in the middle of the night all battered up, she deserved a card. You dont have to be her friend to sign it, you just need to be sincere when you say i hope you get better soon which i am sure everyone who signed was. Lighten up, and i hope molly doesnt read what you posted because i am sure that it wont make her feel very good. you should be ashamed of yourself. You dont need to be someones friend to wish them well... remember that!
That was not called for at all. How could you possibly think such mean things when somebody is hurt so bad (whoever they were aimed towards) When people are hurt mentally or physically you should try to comfort them, Molly deserved to know that people wished her and her health well. I truly hope that molly doesn't read your post because i don't think that she needs another thing to deal with, let her battle her physical and emotional health instead of worrying whether her cards are making people upset. Next time, i would really consider what your saying before you say it, Molly needs warm wishes not cold.
This is my journal where I post my own feelings and that's fine if people don't agree with me on what I have to say. Not once did I wish Molly bad health or for her not to recover. This was more about the fact that anytime something tragic or unfortunate happens everyone jumps all over it as if they have some connection with that person. It's fine if you think what I said was rude or uncalled for, I knew people wouldn't all agree with me. Even if Molly does see this she should know that it's not directed towards her and her accident it's directed towards peoples reactions to things.
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't know you last year, or else I would have gone to see you all the time - you know that. I didn't even hear about what happened to you through people we both know, but I'm sure I would have been worried. I would have felt the same way about a card or something - if I don't really know someone, its wrong to only get to know them/ be nice because something happened, like you said. Mollie is only a casual friend of mine, so maybe I shouldn't have been the one with the card at lunch, but I didn't make it....
Anyway, you deserved so much more than a card for what you went through. I'm sorry it went the way it did.
-Erin
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