so another post

[burgundysamoyed]

I haven't really been much in into posting in lately

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*hugs*

[rtreesbane]

That's a gentle one by the way.

I have learned the hard way, take the time and give yourself permission to rest. I haven't done it much over the past weeks since having surgery and I'm paying for it.

Give yourself permission to heal. No matter how crazy you feel for doing it.

Re: *hugs*

[burgundysamoyed]

thanks...it's the hardest part... go to sleep when you can and need to. And say this little word called NO. and step it down. I have figured out some strategies for work... and that is a good idea. I am happy about that. Thank you for reading and your thoughtfulness.

Re: *hugs*

[rtreesbane]

Yes, learning to listen to your body instead of ignoring it and "hobbiting on" is not easy when you get to be old and crotchety... like me. Or a parent. It's okay to step back a bit.

[burgundysamoyed]

I can't wear a helmet. But I can not engage. I am in charge of certifying my staff, and I am going to pull my certification to protective once I get back to work. (I can only defend myself-no restraints) and hopefully maintain that for a few years and see if that helps. I need time.

and this TBI thing is hard. I remain tired a lot, and losing words a lot, and stuttering. If I go slow, and use simple words it helps... but it's frustrating. It will get better, but with time. And rest. I am glad that the summer is coming. The time off is good.

[burgundysamoyed]

I was head butted...its severely abused kids that I work with. In public schools. I love them, and don't fault them. But I can't do this like this anymore and have to change how I do this because it's too costly. I have had a lot of time to think...and have sorted a few things out.

The rest has helped quite a bit. I am grateful.

Thanks for reading...

[goddess_becca]

Hugs and love. See you tomorrow.

[burgundysamoyed]

best morning ever..thank you so much for coming over.

[goddess_becca]

well, thank you for feeding me. I totally needed some mr. darcy in my life. Even if it is a Mr. nobely