Comments | burntpeach: Being alone

burntpeach

Being alone

Oct 21, 2002 01:29

Sometimes I wonder if being alone is such a bad thing. Technically speaking I could never be alone because I have two beautiful children to always keep me company. With that in mind I'm beginning to think that taking a break from all outside contact isn't such a bad idea. A person has to have outside contact in order to survive and continue to ( Read more... )

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vblackangelv October 20 2002, 22:33:29 UTC

love that song!

Smashing Pumpkins also did a remake

Re: burntpeach October 20 2002, 22:38:29 UTC

Hmmmmmm - I didn't know that - I'll have to locate the MP3 on that one and take a listen - thanks girlie! *smooch*

Re: vblackangelv October 20 2002, 22:43:37 UTC

oh yes, their remake is really good :)

cryptical October 21 2002, 00:26:26 UTC

*hugs*
Miss you!!!
I have been really really lonely the past few days. I hate this feeling, yes you have have your sons, but your sons cant give you the satifaction you need and want.
Ya know?
You can't be having that bunny around all the time.
*wink*
<33 ya
-bebe

Re: burntpeach October 21 2002, 07:31:22 UTC

Ahhh Bebe I miss you and wish I could be closer to you just to hang out, hug you and share space together - that would make us both feel better.

I have my kiddos but you are right that doesn't take the place of what I need and want. However opening the door to heartache from friends, lovers and family has really gotten old for me - I'd rather deal with one feeling (loneliness) than heartache and the many others that come with it.

I guess I never told anyone on LJ but my bunny died - yep he's officially dead and has been - it was a sad day trust me *wink*.

Love ya girlie!!!

sparklegrrl October 21 2002, 06:28:37 UTC

I love time alone..even more now because I don't get it often!

Re: burntpeach October 21 2002, 07:32:15 UTC

Maybe that's what I am experiencing - the joy of not explaining myself. *huggles*

albadore October 21 2002, 06:36:46 UTC

well, it can be good for a while. to not see your idenity in terms of another person is definitely healthy. but isolation can be a powerful and negative drug, as well...

burntpeach October 21 2002, 07:35:32 UTC

I could never totally isolate myself which is probably why I would even contemplate such a move. Just when I think I'm ready to branch out in one direction or another I get reminded of the pain and letdown that often come with it. Maybe the solution for me is to keep randomly trying and one magic day I will succeed in branching out again *hugz*

Re: albadore October 21 2002, 17:19:42 UTC

well if you come up with the magic formula, let me know... ;o)

Re: burntpeach October 21 2002, 17:34:27 UTC

But sweetie - the magic is being comfortable with oneself and the only way to truly be comfortable with oneself is to truly know oneself!

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magenta25 October 21 2002, 14:26:28 UTC

I think the truer one is to oneself, the less others can hurt them. But hurt will always exist, and unfortunately they're always be some asswipe who feels the need to bring others down.

and I don't know if you could pull off not having extra contact because so many people love you and they would miss you too much (Ok so I'm a little selfish).

Re: burntpeach October 21 2002, 17:33:10 UTC

Leah you always have a way of making me feel so much better - you are not a diamond in the rough at all but rather a ruby with your ruby qualities:

Rubies promote wealth, protection, power and joy. Rubies are ruled by Mars and worn to increases energies. Rubies are said to banish sadness and produce joy.

Yes you are a true Ruby in every sense and I'm glad to call you a friend - miss ya bunches!!! *warm huggles*