Help?

[butimaniceguy]

I've been fairly disappointed with how things have gone with OkCupid recently, so I am enlisting your help.

I need a self-summary, a list of things I'm really good at, and the first things people usually notice about me.

Comments

[nine_day_watch]

Uh.. ok. You're very friendly, outgoing, understanding, and supportive. Uh..some of the other things I want to say I don't know how to..uh, you're able to hang out with a wide variety of people and social groups and seem to be understanding(crap what's the other word I want?!?) and supportive of them even though they might be quite different than yourself. You're cute, handsome, friendly and polite.

I can't think of anything else that comes to mind immediately, not that they're aren't other things to come to mind. Crud. Use this. http://kevan.org/johari

[mwahaism]

You're extroverted, friendly, sociable, reflective and though this is hard to judge online but from what I do know and your photos, you seem approachable, open and non-judgmental (alike to what I think the above poster was trying to say too).

I agree with the above poster, that using a Johari window might be useful. If I remember right, you pick 5 or 6 traits that you see in yourself and then you can see what others say about you (whether they see in you the same qualities you see and which characters are most widely recognized when people think of you).