Took wifey out for a nice dinner last night to celebrate our one-month anniversary. Can ya believe it peeps? The gorilla's been married for one whole month already! Woah mamma
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PT told me i hog the blanket so much, he woke up in the middle of the night feeling damn cold, but didn't want to disturb my sleep to get his share of the blankie.. evil me :P my habit is to make a cocoon out of my blanket hee
Yes! J cocoons herself too! I'll wake up in the middle of night wondering why it's so chilly only to see her snuggled up all nice and comfy! She'll only want the gorilla under the same blanket when she's feeling cold coz my body heat warms it up for her (I'm the Human Torch lah).
Heh, on the other hand, I tend to sprawl when I sleep and J complains that I often relegate her to one small corner of the bed and she could fall off the edge any moment. So drama! Hahaha! Oh yah, she whacks me real hard if I snore too ... and I mean REAL HARD! o_O
Haha.. sounds like you've adapted yourself well to married life. :) I guess certain regular "spousal duties" do play a part and serves as great motivation yah? *winks*
Btw, just curious, do you discuss spousal duties (I mean the household kind, like cleaning the house etc) with your wife before marriage? Like 'delegate' who would be doing what kinda housework?
I have to confess. It's not easy to learning to live with someone else under the same roof, no matter how much you love them. Can't say I've adapted well yet judging from the amount of
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Hmm.. good advice. Thanks! :) Think the change in mindset is very important to keep the r/s going. Guess everybody will need time to adjust. I know of some people who said that b4 n after marriage their spouse seemed like a different person and they would quarrel over small little things. Such stories always make me think 'twice' about 'marriage'..
Just a OT question, did u bring J to buy her engagement ring, then choose a time when she least expects it to propose to her or did u just buy (without her knowledge)?
Babe, I think it's quite natural for newly wed couples to argue about the little things initially. Actually, you'll be amazed at how ingrained one's little habits and bevarioural patterns can be! In fact, the more "insignificant" they are, the more ingrained they can be ... like the way you squeeze toothpaste, or how you like your cups/dishes/cutlery arranged, or the way you like rice cooked, etc. It'll be quite amazing if newly weds don't argue over such things at all initially.
The important things is not to take such arguments personally and to realise that it's all part of the process of adjusting and adapting to one another. Like I mentioned in a previous post, learn to let go (and adapt) if something doesn't kill you. Heh, easy to say but much harder to put in practice. ;)
No, I didn't bring J to buy the engagement ring although I did do my homework beforehand ... her ring size, the kinda design she likes, etc. I wanted it to be a surprise. ;)
Actually hor, he gorilla does a lot of the cleaning too ... sweeping, mopping, scrubbing, etc (the more menial stuff lah). I don't mind coz I'd rather J spends her energy cooking up a storm in the kitchen. Heh! But yeah, she does most of the ironing, although I'll chip in when she needs a break. But hor, chabor clothes really very challenging to iron ah! :\
Hey, you're a good mummy and wifey too hor! Not to mention chio ah! Your hubby also kio-tio lah! Confirm!!!
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Guess you are enjoying married life with her. Now we need to hear from her side! haha
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Her side of the story ah ... erm ... um ... I bet she has only nice things to say about the gorilla lah! Um, yah. *nervous look*
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Heh. But happy for you mate :)
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Old married woman your head lah! *bish!* But the regular sex part I can live with. :P~
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I din know you like it all dirtyyy, christina uglyliera you.
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Don't all guys? Heh! And I bet miss uglyliera knows all about it gettin' dirty. ;)
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PT told me i hog the blanket so much, he woke up in the middle of the night feeling damn cold, but didn't want to disturb my sleep to get his share of the blankie.. evil me :P my habit is to make a cocoon out of my blanket hee
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Heh, on the other hand, I tend to sprawl when I sleep and J complains that I often relegate her to one small corner of the bed and she could fall off the edge any moment. So drama! Hahaha! Oh yah, she whacks me real hard if I snore too ... and I mean REAL HARD! o_O
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and lucky for us.. neither of us snore :P
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What, PT doesn't snore? Wahlao, he must be in the 10% or so of men who don't! You lucky ah!
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Btw, just curious, do you discuss spousal duties (I mean the household kind, like cleaning the house etc) with your wife before marriage? Like 'delegate' who would be doing what kinda housework?
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Just a OT question, did u bring J to buy her engagement ring, then choose a time when she least expects it to propose to her or did u just buy (without her knowledge)?
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The important things is not to take such arguments personally and to realise that it's all part of the process of adjusting and adapting to one another. Like I mentioned in a previous post, learn to let go (and adapt) if something doesn't kill you. Heh, easy to say but much harder to put in practice. ;)
No, I didn't bring J to buy the engagement ring although I did do my homework beforehand ... her ring size, the kinda design she likes, etc. I wanted it to be a surprise. ;)
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Hey, you're a good mummy and wifey too hor! Not to mention chio ah! Your hubby also kio-tio lah! Confirm!!!
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