venting

[bybo]

i realized something tonight, i am tired of doing everything by myself. 8 baseball games, four movies, all my meals, pretty much everything i do, i do by myself, i'm tired of it. i hear about people having all these friends, and always doing stuff together, is that true or does everybody feel like they don't fit in no matter what group they are

Comments

[3babymama]

I hate to say it but pretty much after college you are on your own. People have job, marriages and kids. To spend time with people, it takes effort. Unfortunately, most don't take the time.
Unless you want to hang out at bars, etc...There are plenty of friends there. But I think you are looking for a different type. Most people would love to have a group like your Men's group. That is an authentic group of friends. That is more important than the hang out type.

[_jillyb_]

We (as in the Behold Board) will be at the lake in Slap-Out this weekend (The Draper's place) if you want to come hang. Me, Bryan, Dad, John D. and some dude John D. invited...Call my cell and I can get directions for you if you want.

[anonymous]

Maybe it's that thing about trying too hard. Maybe it's about letting go of trying to manage that part of your life and just letting God handle it. Whatever it is, never settle for less than you deserve.

LOVE!!!

[winsty]

I feel exactly the same way. I don't feel like I fit in anywhere, except when I'm at camp. It's just this weird feeling. I have no confidant, no one to hang out with, etc. It's the one reason that I wish I lived in Birmingham where I could be closer to friends.

[anonymous]

It's going to be all right. Just wait until you have kids you are going to wish you could go to the bathroom in peace. It's just the way you feel now and it will pass. It's not what God has called you to do it's the devil making you feel that way. So smile cause everybody Loves bybo.