Ohhh, so this is what's wrong with me; at least I know it's common enough to be a trait?

Sep 30, 2015 03:51

"For the anxious attachment style, intimacy and closeness are the core needs. These needs results in wanting reassurance that things are okay, and that their partner is readily accessible to them emotionally and maybe even physically depending on the situation. These needs are neither good nor bad, they are simply needs ( Read more... )

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singlebluenote October 5 2015, 00:36:22 UTC
Um, yeah, I think that's a common trait for some types. I'm the attachment type somewhat. It makes me feel paranoid at times with new relationships -- whether with friends, crushes, or something potential. Its also why newer "relationships" fail on my part because some times I get really hyped or attached and then when something feels weird or off, it makes me wonder what I did wrong.

I think I fall for women who are independent, slightly adventurous, and can talk because contrary to my writing and online chat skills, I'm a bit more quiet and reserved in person. I wonder if that's due to trying to be cautious and not be so overwhelming or because I know that I am being overwhelming and don't want to scare someone I like away.

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