OK, sometimes I think too much ;-) and this may well be one of them.....
I've been thinking lots lately about my next relationship. Been a while since the divorce, plus I'm trying to figure out bottom-line what I need to be happy and not settle the way I did the last time :-( Also need to figure out what I need so I can short circuit matchmaking
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I've always thought that I needed a master/owner (M/O). Finding one who is right in other ways outside the sexual would be ideal
How important is the Jewish requirement ... and would you settle for a goy who knows some Yiddish?
However, he'd need to understand that my inclination is to submit outside the bedroom as well, and help me a bit.... even if it doesn't do anywhere near as much for him as dominance on sexual matters
I'm guessing that you wouldn't mind if he wants (and needs) to Dominate outside the bedroom just as much as as within (smile)
So a new relationship with any level of power exchange will have an adjustment period. I'm pretty sure that he'll end up doling out real punishments..
Regardless of how either of them feel about it .... I believe it to be necessary, in order to get the relationship off to a proper start. .... By the way .... is your Maine cabin isolated enough to allow for screaming?
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