Philosophy for My Child

[callmemarilyn]

Here's my plan! I love children as much as everybody else does and I do believe I want them some day. But right now, I am working at a barely over minimum wage job with an apartment that I can barely live comfortably at. I have decided my plan is to first, maybe finish school. I want to have a good enough job to give my children what they need. I

Comments

[orcainthemist]

Ahhh... yes, i see what you are saying... these are valid arguments, but who are you to say who should or should not have kids? IF a friend of yours decides to have a child... wants one really bad... why would you burst their bubble and say, "that's a stupid idea... you're stupid for even thinking that way..." You are supposed to stand by your friend and support their decision... not go and post your "philosophy" Say, " I will support you in every possible way, but you need to consider you situation first... and if you still decide that you want a child, I'll be there for you." That's what a good friend would do!

[orcainthemist]

do you even know where this post originated from? i know she wasn't talking about me... she was mainly talking about a certain friend and she was trying to tell this friend not to have a kid when it really isn't her decision to begin with... it is the mother to be and the father to be... if they want to have a kid together, then what is horrible about that... this friend will make a great mum and so will the daddy....
i also find these ideas realistic, however, that is her and not her friend!

DEAR!!!!