You asked him to train you. He chose how to do it. And even if you had specifically asked him to hurt you, he could have chosen not to.
Believe me, it's good to take responsibility for things. And sometimes you have to take care of things that shouldn't be your responsibility. But another part of growing is developing the ability to discern what truly is your responsibility. And the ball was in Magneto's court this time.
I need to set boundaries and tell him what I want my training to be like. That's what people told me to do. And, um, they also said I shouldn't talk to him alone...
Vanya, we've already established that I'm not mad at you. And remember: if you had difficulty coming out and asking me for something just now, you need to be prepared for how you're going to ask things of Magneto.
You shouldn't go by yourself. Not for now, at least. And I've already told you that I'll go with you. I'm just also informing you that you should be prepared for potentially creating a new set of difficulties because of it.
Now that's a bit of a leading question. What brought this on?
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Never think that it's your fault for what another person chose to do to you. Magneto is a big boy and can take care of himself.
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Believe me, it's good to take responsibility for things. And sometimes you have to take care of things that shouldn't be your responsibility. But another part of growing is developing the ability to discern what truly is your responsibility. And the ball was in Magneto's court this time.
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...yes, Vanya?
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And yes, I will go with you.
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