Comments | canadianchia: you and i now, we can be all right

canadianchia

you and i now, we can be all right

Jan 20, 2014 14:24

Well, I know I haven't updated since I got back from my trip, and that's because my life has been in a state of upheaval since then. 2014 has gotten off to a pretty rough start, if I'm being honest. Basically, things between me and Brad have been steadily going downhill for quite a while, really, and it all came to a head while I was gone/when I ( Read more... )

marriage, stress, lj toys

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canadianchia January 20 2014, 20:21:32 UTC

Thanks, Kasey. I really appreciate that. (Btw, who's your cell carrier? Some, like Verizon, let you text Canada for free; they just charge you for calls. But I know not all of them offer that.)

Especially since it's not like a job where you can leave it at the door when you get home and not have to worry about it until the morning. - Yeah, that's exactly it. It's just constantly weighing on my mind, and there is no real putting it aside. Thank you for your support. It means a lot. ♥

bonjour_cupcake January 21 2014, 00:04:17 UTC

I'm sorry for how things are, Alia. I can't imagine what it must be like for both you and Brad, but if you ever need to talk just let me know. I wish we could text. :( If at anytime you want to talk feel free to email me. Or if you want to talk online. Anything. I'll be keeping you both in my thoughts and hope that things improve. *hugs*

canadianchia January 21 2014, 13:05:17 UTC

Thanks, Claudia. *hugs* I really appreciate it.

fadetblack January 21 2014, 06:53:55 UTC

I'm really sorry to hear about everything going on. I know what it's like to be faced with that and to have everything going on in your mind. If you ever want someone to talk to I'm here. I use WhatsApp to "text" my international friends.

On another note, awesome survey! The days where these were so common and done so often. High five for being 5ft2 and some change. =)

canadianchia January 21 2014, 13:07:33 UTC

Thanks, Jill. That's sweet of you to offer. How does WhatsApp work? Do I need to have it too to talk to you or can I just give you my number and you can use it to text me?

Haha, yeah, it's been forever since I've done one of those, but it was a good distraction for a little while. And yeah, short people high five! :D

fadetblack January 21 2014, 16:45:01 UTC

It's an app that can be gotten for smartphones (although I hear there's a computer version now, but I haven't looked into it). Both people need the app and then it uses phone numbers as your "user name" type thing. It uses data instead of actual texts which is how it allows people to send messages internationally.

canadianchia January 22 2014, 02:19:41 UTC

Hmm, okay, I will look into that.

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canadianchia January 21 2014, 13:09:09 UTC

Thanks. Yeah, I did do one private entry here, but I also actually bought myself a physical journal, and I've been writing my thoughts and stuff in there. It does help to get it out of my head, but it's not all stuff I necessarily want to share with the world, so the physical journal is good for that.

kadenza January 21 2014, 14:56:41 UTC

Oh wow, I didn't know it had gotten that serious. Really, really sorry to hear this. :(

canadianchia January 22 2014, 02:21:03 UTC

Yeah, well I've done a pretty good job of not even admitting to myself how bad things had gotten, let alone talking to other people about it. Thank you, though.