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[candy_mmm]

dwayne just ticks me off, always has , always will.... i hate how he just can tell everything about me, true, exagerated or from his twisted prospective, especially to my family..... then when i confront him about it, he says own up dont do what you dont want talked about...... or you tell your sisters im a jerk ( which i dont say that but thats

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[admnaismith]

Seems to me you're allowed to have degrees of privacy between your inner family, outer family, social circle and the general public.

Have you tried being extra quiet and noncommunicative for a while, and when he complains, you ask him if a secret told to him is going to be knowledge shouted to the world, how can you open up to him?

Then again, if he's like most of my gender, he might not even notice to complain...

[candy_mmm]

funny you say that.... i think this is how I had seperated myself slowly from the beginning, by withdrawing...... what the hell! its too late now, i was thinking lately how everything i do is on display and how i have to be extra careful or it will be used against me anyway.

and your right when i withdrew... and was noncommunicative he never noticed, or if he did he thought it was so great he didnt care it was "not me" he had silence, but it just built the resentments up in me.

women are made to communicate, when they stop things go seriously wrong..... after all if it isnt women who try to keep the lines are communication open then who does? men are innately more proned to "not talking"

maybe ill bring it up to our therapist today.... shell discuss with him and he listens to her...

then ill be good and shut up more....