Drink lots of tea with honey...it helps alot! Glassmen is not a bad corp. Lots of MSU people have marched with them. I almost auditioned for them, but then wrecked my car and had no money! Poo!
I know Glassmen isn't a bad corps- I'm saying that Southwind isn't phenomenal. I'm going to Southwind because I want to have fun and learn things, not get my ass kicked a ton. I love marching, but I'm not hard core enough to march a top corp....
you can't expect him to cut people from his life for you. him trying to be friends with his ex can actually be a good thing. it shows he doesnt just date and ditch girls. wouldnt you want him to still be friends with you if this doesnt work out? would you want him to start telling you to get out of his life and never talk to him just because you arent dating? plus, as frustrating and annoying as it may be... the crazier she is, the better you look. Don't be crazy! haha he'll see how crazy she is... and maybe that is one of the reasons he feels she really needs his friendship. as long as it is only a friendship. there is no reason he shouldn't keep it. Insecurities are something people have to work on by themselves, not ask others to appease.
I think the reason I feel so badly about the situation is because he talks to her more than he talks to me. He looks at her and tries to get her attention during rehearsals, and rarely looks at me. I know they have a huge past (3 years, dude.) but it's just really hard to start a relationship with someone who seems still in love with her, you know? We've talked about it and he swears he's not in love with her- but in my opinion, actions speak louder than words, and I'm scared I'm wasting this time when he's just gonna go back to her
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have you told him this, what you told me, excatly? word-for-word. no alluding to being upset over it. Flat out said "I feel like you talk to her more than you talk to me, and whether you still love her or not... you're supposed to be with me, you're supposed to want to talk to me. I feel like I am wasting my time. I don't feel like you are working with me to work on us." see how he reacts to a calm-blunt-nicely stated conversation. Be blunt but not overly emotional(guys see that as unattractive/bitchy). Give him a solution that involves BOTH of you working on your relationship. If things still don't get better. It's time to move on. Whether he still loves her or not, he might not be ready for another relationship (even if he really likes you). It's probably INCREDIBLY weird for him, especially with her still around.
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Glassmen is not a bad corp. Lots of MSU people have marched with them. I almost auditioned for them, but then wrecked my car and had no money! Poo!
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plus, as frustrating and annoying as it may be... the crazier she is, the better you look. Don't be crazy! haha he'll see how crazy she is... and maybe that is one of the reasons he feels she really needs his friendship. as long as it is only a friendship. there is no reason he shouldn't keep it. Insecurities are something people have to work on by themselves, not ask others to appease.
hope you start to feel better girl!! :-)
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see how he reacts to a calm-blunt-nicely stated conversation. Be blunt but not overly emotional(guys see that as unattractive/bitchy). Give him a solution that involves BOTH of you working on your relationship. If things still don't get better. It's time to move on. Whether he still loves her or not, he might not be ready for another relationship (even if he really likes you). It's probably INCREDIBLY weird for him, especially with her still around.
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