Consider me praying, Melanie. and sympathizing with your Shaun situation... I know what it feels like- I hate that I do, but I do. And I try to read every update- don't think we're just tired of hearing about it [though I know what you feel], this is your journal! that's why we're here. ♥
I love you! Stay strong... keep your eyes on God- you've already recognized that he can fill your heart... he's already speaking to you.
I tried waiting for Ryan for a bit, and I did get to date him... but it was obvious he wasn't over her, and he decided he just wanted to be friends. But hell, the friendship thing didn't even work out between us. He couldn't be just friends, but he couldn't be in a relationship with me... and now things are bad. It turns out he doesn't know how to be single. He was with Lauren for 3 years and feels lost when he doesn't have a girl. being in a long-term relationship will do that to you. he's probably going through the same thing ryan went through with me. i just didnt have the patients to be put on a back burner, and he didn't know how to be my friend. it is up to you what you want to do with the situation. do you think it would be worth it to wait, even if he ends up going back to her? I thought Ryan was perfect, but I didn't think what was happening was worth it.
I hope the answers come to you :-) you won't be happy until you are content with your decision
yeah.... I think that being a girl is getting the best of me- I always try to see the good in people. I think I have too much faith and hope in people, sometimes.
The longer I wait, the more I think I'm wasting my time. Which is probably a good sign that I shouldn't. I know he's going to need time before he starts a real relationship- I told him that from the get-go. I just wish he'd actually listened to me.
There's a little somethin' new in the works. I'll write a post about it soonish. :) It has a lot more possibility than the Shaun situation. (I'm hoping. haha)
hahaha :) Okay, this is how that conversation went down. I said somethign like, "Dude. You should date Christine- she's sooo cute!" He said something like, he liked you a lot for a really really long time, but you're there and he's here and long distance relationships never work out..... And then I told him that was the saddest thing I'd ever heard and that if you really wanted to be with someone, nothing should stop you and then I said "okay, I'm gonna go watch a depressing movie and cry for you- because you make me sad." He was like "er.... okay?" and proceeded to make fun of me for being a girl
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I love you! Stay strong... keep your eyes on God- you've already recognized that he can fill your heart... he's already speaking to you.
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being in a long-term relationship will do that to you. he's probably going through the same thing ryan went through with me. i just didnt have the patients to be put on a back burner, and he didn't know how to be my friend.
it is up to you what you want to do with the situation. do you think it would be worth it to wait, even if he ends up going back to her? I thought Ryan was perfect, but I didn't think what was happening was worth it.
I hope the answers come to you :-)
you won't be happy until you are content with your decision
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The longer I wait, the more I think I'm wasting my time. Which is probably a good sign that I shouldn't. I know he's going to need time before he starts a real relationship- I told him that from the get-go. I just wish he'd actually listened to me.
There's a little somethin' new in the works. I'll write a post about it soonish. :) It has a lot more possibility than the Shaun situation. (I'm hoping. haha)
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and drew told me we're supposed to date? lol
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