No. I believe that there is someone for everyone, but some find their special someone later in life. My mom was 27 when she met my dad. She was 28 when they were wed. My dad was 30 when they met and 31 when they were wed.
However...personally, I just got out of a mutually abusive relationship 4 months ago and relationships in general scare the tar out of me now.
I did things I regret with this person because I thought we were going to get married (we were engaged). Two years after being together and he decides he doesn't want to work it out anymore. It was a pretty emotionally abusive thing and it's good it ended.
It's a long story and I'm sure you can figure out the little bit of my vagueness.
I just home my future husband doesn't hate me too much for the sins I've commited. I've repented and promised never to do it again. Now that I know what god thinks I'm not so sure what the next boyfriend thinks and that's another reason I'm not with anyone now.
You'll find someone. I believe there is at least one person for everyone. I've thought the same as you before. Things will work out. It'll just take time. And the whole not finding guys attractive or crush-worthy is normal too. I just got sick of guys and didn't care for awhile. Still don't really care, but that's because drunken roommates/classmates hit on me at 2 am. oy! haha. In the end, he will find you.
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However...personally, I just got out of a mutually abusive relationship 4 months ago and relationships in general scare the tar out of me now.
I did things I regret with this person because I thought we were going to get married (we were engaged). Two years after being together and he decides he doesn't want to work it out anymore. It was a pretty emotionally abusive thing and it's good it ended.
It's a long story and I'm sure you can figure out the little bit of my vagueness.
I just home my future husband doesn't hate me too much for the sins I've commited. I've repented and promised never to do it again. Now that I know what god thinks I'm not so sure what the next boyfriend thinks and that's another reason I'm not with anyone now.
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