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[candyintherain]

Is fear a normal part of this whole relationship thing? Is it a normal feeling? I've never really been in a serious relationship before..well, I have once. But it was not a very healthy relationship. But I don't think Ben would ever physically hurt me..or hurt me at all. But he could. I've given him the power to. And that scares me. Should I be

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[iamolex]

We all fear things, but you shouldn't be afraid of him hurting you in any way. Have you talked to him about it?

[stolen_bread]

I don't know much about your relationship but my advice to you is to talk to him about this. In any relationship you open yourself to possible heartache but there are always positive and negative things in life. Or else why would so many people be in relationships? I personally believe that it is normal to be scared of being hurt but you shouldn't let that stop you from living.

[living2laugh]

Fear is NOT something normal to feel. When you love someone, you ENJOY thier company and you feel completely SAFE in their arms. Maybe you should rethink things, you know? Hope you make the right choice though.
*Jessy*

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[fooltheworld5]

you need to conquer this fear.opening up to the person you like is a good thing