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[cangetmad]

Absolute failure at NGPD as a result of lovely museum-based meetup with hfnuala and majea. Particular sites of failure were discussions of the three LJspawn present. I forgive myself for "she"ing under pressure when Gnome went invisible by the fishpond, but really, it's taught me how ingrained the ungendered=disrespectful thing is. As hfnuala observed, the hardest is

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[lilitufire]

I have nothing interesting to report, because I don't think I talked about a third person singular to anyone, in English or Japanese. I called Mark to talk about delivery of our wine fridge (how fucking bourgeois are we?) but there were two delivery people so they were naturally they...

[kylegirl]

I just read this article: "You can't trust gender-bending avatars" and thought of what you said about withholding gender as giving offense (which is actually something I think about frequently because in text-based communication my gender is usually unknown or incorrectly assumed until I choose to reveal it...).